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10 Tips For Better Communication

Over the years, I have had the incredible opportunity to work with countless people and counsel them in the struggles and joys of life. I have learned a few helpful tips on how to communicate better. This list is not exhaustive, and I am sure I could write a book on this, but I hope…

The Relationship Competition

There was a point in my life where I wanted the perfect trophy wife. I think I was extremely patient because I didn’t wish to settle for less than my list of qualities that I created over the years. So when a girl would come around I would say well, she doesn’t have this or…

I Would Like A Relationship To Go Please!

Every Monday I have this tradition with the youth kids from the church. I go and pick them all up, spend time with them, and then on the way to the church right before we get there, there is a Maccas (McDonalds). The tradition is to yell out “WHO WANTS ICECREAM!?” and all the kids…

Stop Playing Games!

Growing up in the secular world I found that the art of relationships was a big game. There were certain things that you were told to do to try and get a girl interested in you. As a boy, I fell into listening to them and attempting to apply them. Each time I would hear…

Are They For Me?

Love can be a scary thing! The idea of emotionally attaching yourself to a person who can choose to either love you back or tear your heart out and stomp it into the ground can be intimidating. That’s the problem: when we allow emotions to get in the way of seeing the facts. We get…