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Where have all the godly women gone?

It seems like the older you get the harder it is to get married. Most of the good ones seem to be taken and already hitched. For the rest, it seems like they have been left behind for slim pickens. So why is it so hard for guys nowadays to find a solid Christian woman? …

Singleness, the unbearable sin.

Singleness, the unbearable sin. I have been lucky enough to experience 37 years on this earth. Most of that life has been single. When I was 19, I fully committed my life to Jesus and decided that I wasn’t going to waste my time pouring into something that was only going to gratify my sexual…

Who has your heart?

Your heart is an extremely precious thing. It’s a very vulnerable piece of you that reveals who or what you are a slave to. The person who controls the heart controls the person. If your heart is wicked, the DEVIL will manipulate you into evil ways doing the things that will push his agenda. If…

Waiting and Watching

He became very protective of his emotions and who he gave his heart to. Maybe it had been from past experiences with girls not caring for his most prize possession. But one thing was for sure, it would take a special woman to capture the heart of this man. She would have to be willing…

Eyes To See

I just don’t know how to explain it all… For some reason God has changed my heart to see something in people that nobody else can see. I guess He has been answering that prayer of giving me His eyes to see people, so that the external surface that people have, has been wiped away…

Are You Free?

Money is the root of all evil!! Right? Actually money in itself is not evil, the actual scripture says “the LOVE of money is the root of all kinds of evils.” 1 Timothy 6:10 Money is not bad, it just an object that can’t do anything by itself. What the scripture talks about is that…

He Just Didn’t See It…

He just didn’t see it…. He had been given a gift that was from God and because of all the walls that had been built up there was no way for Him to see what was right in front of him. This woman was perfect for him; the connection they had was amazing, but there…

Will guys notice me?

As her beauty developed she tried to find comfort in that billboard of what society said was attractive. That look of an outward appearance being flawless. As she looked in the mirror to compare she knew she would have to make make many changes because she wasn’t even close to looking like that. Her hair…

10 Tips For Better Communication

Over the years, I have had the incredible opportunity to work with countless people and counsel them in the struggles and joys of life. I have learned a few helpful tips on how to communicate better. This list is not exhaustive, and I am sure I could write a book on this, but I hope…

The Relationship Competition

There was a point in my life where I wanted the perfect trophy wife. I think I was extremely patient because I didn’t wish to settle for less than my list of qualities that I created over the years. So when a girl would come around I would say well, she doesn’t have this or…