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It’s a dark world, Be the light

It’s been a really difficult year. 2020 will forever mark a time in history that was filled with fear, uncertainty, pain, sickness, loss, anger, hatred, and confusion. People have suffered through isolation, losing their jobs, and the death of their loved ones. And as the months pass by, people start to lose more hope, and…

Where have all the godly women gone?

It seems like the older you get the harder it is to get married. Most of the good ones seem to be taken and already hitched. For the rest, it seems like they have been left behind for slim pickens. So why is it so hard for guys nowadays to find a solid Christian woman? …

Where have all the godly MEN gone?

It seems that people are getting married a lot later in life these days. I am constantly talking with people about life, dating, marriage and being single. Most in their 20’s and 30’s and I have began to ask the questions of why? Why are so many people not taking the plunge into the covenant…

Singleness, the unbearable sin.

Singleness, the unbearable sin. I have been lucky enough to experience 37 years on this earth. Most of that life has been single. When I was 19, I fully committed my life to Jesus and decided that I wasn’t going to waste my time pouring into something that was only going to gratify my sexual…

Do your words Matter?

The question is… Do the words that we speak about others really matter? You can’t turn on any form of media nowadays without listening to the opinions of other people. And for me, it is very rare to hear anything positive and encouraging from the mouths of those talking about others. But how does that…

Has Social Media tainted reality?

Is social media transforming how we do relationships? It seems like we are being inundated with photos and videos of people who have perfect lives. Every click seems like the most beautiful person who is drop dead gorgeous and extremely happy. I see people with the perfect bodies who just work out all day long…

My Life

As I sit here and go through old pictures of me as a child up until today, I look back at my life and see all the amazing times that I had. All the blessings and the experiences that God has allowed me to be involved in has brought great awe to me through it…

Loving Jesus VS Being a Christian

I woke up with this on my mind and it really was a message to me. But I decided to write it because I know it will impact many others that call themselves Christians. When I was 13 I gave my life to Jesus and started to call myself a Christian. I would pick up…

A Christian Man’s perspective of a desirable woman

Years ago I was asked a very unique question about what I found beautiful in a woman. My answer consisted of a bunch of features that I liked and all based on appearance. I would also throw in the “she must also love Jesus”, just to hit some areas of character and not sound to…

Are we enabling our children?

I have been thinking a lot about how I was raised and how blessed I was to have a family that really trained me up to be able to live my life on my own. They pushed me to work at a young age and didn’t spoil me to a point of taking away my…