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TRUE LOVE

I really question if many human beings understand what true love is. I have heard many different opinions on what people think it is, but when they have to pin it down to something simple it becomes a challenge. They say things like its an emotion that they feel or something they enjoy. Things they…

Will guys notice me?

As her beauty developed she tried to find comfort in that billboard of what society said was attractive. That look of an outward appearance being flawless. As she looked in the mirror to compare she knew she would have to make make many changes because she wasn’t even close to looking like that. Her hair…

He waited 7 plus 7 years for marriage

Over the last couple months I have been learning more and more about what real love is and how to apply it. So looking through the bible I have found scripture that have given me a better understanding of the Love of God. 1 Corinthians 13 has a list of these characteristics that show…

He didn’t get it for me

As I was sitting in the coffee shop I couldn’t help but over hear a conversation that really just made me cringe. Sometimes when I am sitting there, there will be some trigger words that will always catch my attention. This time it was the word “Church”. So oh, they must be Christians was my…

Love keeps no records of wrongs

I don’t know if you have ever experienced this, but I had a friend in the past that did me dirty! So bad that it seemed his only goal was to destroy me and everything that I owned. He wrecked my house and constantly lied to my face, all while destroying many other relationships and…

Love is not irritable or resentful

I think God was crazy when He put this one into the bible. Love is not Irritable? phffft! So what you are telling me is that when I get irritated, I am not loving? Yeah, pretty much! Why? Because when you get irritated, it is because people are putting you into a situation that you…

Love is not Self-Seeking

The more I read about what true love is, the more I realize how wrong we all are. Our love usually consists of trying to get something out of somebody for some self gratification. Our motives are triggered by us being happy and feeling good about ourselves. But that isn’t what the Bible calls true…

Love is not Arrogant or Rude

I used to have this friend that thought he was God’s gift to the world. In his head, he thought that everything that he did was equivalent to perfection. If he walked down the street, he thought every girl was drooling over him and wanted to have his babies. When he would talk about sports,…

Love is Kind

Can you imagine a world where everybody was kind to one another? Now for me growing up, that wasn’t a common word that I heard in the vocabulary of others. Every once in a while I would hear somebody say it but didn’t know the true meaning of kindness. So if you are anything like…

Love is Patient

There is beauty in patience, because it requires you to wait on the Lord. We come from a society that is instant gratification based. If something takes longer then our patience will allow, we move on to something else. That same societal norm has also infiltrated our relationships. I am not just talking about the…